Doxory?

susannah has decided I just figured out when the anniversary of riv and I starting dating is. It's in early August and this August will be our third. In the past at that time of the year we've remarked over having started dating around then, but not really done anything in particular for it (unless you count looking at LJ posts from then).

So, people's ideas for small things we could do in addition to keeping doing what we've been doing were in line with what I had in mind for making a big deal out of the anniversary. I wonder what this says about me? izzycat: I don't think I could ever want to kill someone if they forgot our anniversary. I'd kill them if they forgot what it was like to kiss when we had first started doing so, but not over a date. So, I'm saying that I decided to "Make a big deal out of it on the day itself", but I agree with the people who left comments on the "Keep doing what we've been doing" side of things.

Asked 2 years ago

Keep doing what we've been doing

jtu
Though you could always add in a glass of (celebratory drink), or time a summer weekend plan that you would've done anyway to fall on one of the adjacent weekends.
kevinr
Anniversaries are over-rated.
lakmiseiru
Unless you really feel it's worth it, don't make a big deal out of it - but do go out to dinner or a movie or something, just for fun. Doesn't have to be that day, though.

seph, stardust9121, ntn, paigep, trs

My choice: Make a big deal out of it on the day itself

izzycat
although I wouldn't try *too* hard if the day in question is inconvenient. But it's nice to celebrate these things, as long as you don't start wanting to kill each other if one of you forgets.

Richie, jesse, kettlefish, Ian

If you make a stupid choice because a website tells you to, it's your own damn fault.