Doxory?

lakmiseiru has decided Asking this one again, because a few things have changed. I've been invited to visit both UCSD and U Arizona. UA seems a bit more pushing to recruit me than UCSD did; the guy I met Monday said I was near the top of their list. The UA trip means one day less of weekend-working to make up vacation days, and probably means I can go to my last day of physical therapy. I like both UCSD and UA, but neither is on the top of my list. I have spent time in San Diego but not Tuscon. Both places cover my plane flights over completely. There's some word that the department at UCSD is imploding, but otoh I doubt my partner can find a job in Tuscon (and has been offered one in San Diego)... but he doesn't want to live in San Diego either.

UCSD says that they might have another date or do phone interviews - not the most helpful nor the most polite of answers. I asked them to let me know when they decide which they're doing, and said "yes!" to UA.

Asked 305 days ago

My choice: Visit UA and ask UCSD for another date

Ian, peggusus

Visit UCSD and ask UA for another date

jtu

If you make a stupid choice because a website tells you to, it's your own damn fault.