Doxory?

melike has decided (edited) A freshman on my floor invited me to her birthday BBQ Sunday afternoon a few days ago, and I said yes. I said I'd even help out with it. Two hours later, my boyfriend invited me to a bbq/picnic/party thing on an island for the entire day. It sounds really fun, and I'd rather go to that. My bf also told me that it'd mean a lot to him, and I don't know the frosh THAT well.. she's really sweet, though. She was afraid that people might not come.

Actually, I was able to do both. I let her know that I'd be back a little bit later, and went to the island party with the boyfriend. The frosh had fallen asleep, so she had moved the dinner two hours back. I was just in time to contribute something of my own to the dinner and hang out for over two hours. Both events were great.

Asked 1 year ago

I picked something else

Stick with my decision and go to the freshman's barbecue?

lakmiseiru: You did say you'd go... perhaps ask the freshman what she would do? But as a default I would stick with your choice.
kyrandil: Nothing sucks more than shipping lots of food and having no-one show up. Find out how many people she knows will make it.

paigep, karl, kevinr, erin

Tell her that something else came up and go to the boyfriend's party instead?

jesse: Ask her if there's anything you can do to help out before you go to the boyfriend's party

coolworld, tibbetts, trs, nelhage, raloxifiend

Skipped (with comments)

seph: Is the boyfriend thing just you, if so can you reschedule it? Tough Call.
ntn: It sounds like you made your decision already.

If you make a stupid choice because a website tells you to, it's your own damn fault.