Doxory?

chicogurl has decided My out-of-town friends have been wishy-washy on Cinco de Mayo plans. One is sick and I can sense that she would rather ditch the plans we made and stay home. The other friend (in town) says to wait and see what the first one decides to do.

Asked 2 years ago

Call friend No. 1 and tell her it's OK if she ditches, to get better and not worry about coming to visit.

jtu
Maybe you can plan something more quiet but still social?
kyrandil
Healthy > having fun. Especially since borderline + trying to rock out -> sicker
deadpuppy5
Calling #1 and letting her know its ok to decide either way sounds best to me (i.e., if you say its ok to ditch, it implies a little that you don't want to go either. But, perhaps you don't want to go anymore).

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My choice: Not do or say anything, let her ditch if that's what she wants to do.

adios

If you make a stupid choice because a website tells you to, it's your own damn fault.